Blog - January Overview

Hi Blog,

As the new year arrives, fewer people ask me about my New Year resolution these days. Maybe people are busy, or maybe they already assume I don’t have one. The truth is, I do have an ultimate aim in life — but I’ve learned that it’s better to stay grounded and realistic than to dress it up into something ambitious-sounding but hollow.

Not every beginning needs noise; some begin with stillness.

When I was younger, like many others — especially when single — my resolutions sounded familiar: eat healthier, work out more, achieve more, move forward faster. Couples seemed different; they had shared motivation and visible milestones ahead of them. As for me, a plain old single guy, my life has been shaped more by responsibility than by ambition — taking care of my mother and siblings, and filling my days with what many might call “boring” activities: hiking, swimming, jogging, blogging, gardening, volunteering, religious work, even cosplaying. These choices don’t always fit the image of someone who looks ready to devote everything to building a conventional family, and over time, they quietly shaped both how others see me and how I see myself.

For Blog - Live Chat or Chat bot

Yippee Blog,

I've made some exciting updates to my personal blog! There's a new live chat or chatbot feature now, so that the chatbot can handle any enquiries first until you request to chat live with me. I am just testing this out, so I'm not sure how much it can do. Looking forward to connecting with you!

So, the "Drop Me a Message" option will change to "Chat with me." (not using "Live Chat" anymore. I'm not sure if this will be a big mistake, but it is a way to reach out to my followers if there are any.

Alternatively, at the bottom right corner of my page, you will find this chatbot. I think I need to adjust some settings to alert me to join the chat; I am not sure how.

I will keep this post as the main focus for three months, after which I will review it for potential removal. Please share your thoughts by leaving comments on the post; your feedback is valuable. Additionally, this chat function is here for anyone who prefers to receive immediate responses. Thank you for your support and encouragement.

Jeff

Personal - Suits for the Theme #118

Hi Blog,

Today, I find myself standing in a very different place from where I used to be. I feel less urge to constantly check how others might read me based on what I wear. Over time, I’ve learned that chasing the “right” image only pulls me further away from myself.

I can’t stop labels, but I don’t have to live by them.

Yes, people will always assume. Some will misinterpret, some will project, and some will judge without knowing the story behind a choice. I’ve come to accept that this is just part of life. I don’t have to explain myself anymore, nor do I need approval to enjoy what I like. Whether it’s fitted clothes, the colour white, or something that feels a little uncommon, I wear them because they make me feel comfortable and aligned — not because I’m trying to prove anything.

Personal - Weekend Suntanning

Good morning Blog,

I really missed Lazarus Island... I missed just lying on the beautiful beach, not doing anything. I had a thought... Why not go on the weekend this time? Previously, I didn't go on weekends because, during COVID days, weekends were packed with visitors, hence why I only went on weekdays; and not everyone could travel, perhaps there have been changes.

I thought I’d give it a shot today since the weather was nice.

I invited T to accompany me on this trip because he always wants to go, and since he was available in the morning, I don't need to spend too much time there, so it is good to clear the queue list. Today's blog post will be a short and 'eyesore-ing' one.

Product - Ultraman Heroes Tang Sanzang

Hi Blog,

As you know, I cosplay as my favourite character to volunteer at some events and go to comic cons to have fun in costume, and I'm kind of forgettable because I'm not a good cosplayer in any sense. But I wanted something special and unique that no one has started yet until I saw a video, which I will share below.

Someone shared this image on WhatsApp and I know I need to become one like this! Something unique and meme. This is Ultraman Heroes - Tang Sanzhan, a fusion concept created by unidentified designers who crafted toy figures and promote fusion like Spiderman + Sailor moon for example.

I was always a fan of Ultraman and wished to be one, but I understand I don't have the physique to dress in it or am wealthy enough to get an awesome, professional-looking one. However, I wanted to become something that people wouldn't skip over and judge based on my cheap costume, so I will go for this one!